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name Oliver
status other
age 50s

Question - My cat Spot is about 7 years old and he is not very
affectionate, if I go away for a weekend he becomes more so. I find he
tends to lick me then bites is this some sign of affection or aggression
? Lately he meows at me when I come home I am not sure if he is happy to
see me or annoyed that I have left him alone. Also is it a good idea to put
him on a leash and take him for a walk outside?
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Dear Oliver
i answer as a long time cat rescuer and cat lover not as a vet.
The cat usually is very much attached and affectionate to his owner.
But it is a little different than the dog that shows more freely its love.
Cats are more independent.
The cat answers the love it receives, try to show  that you love him, pet him
a lot of times. Some like to be kissed, some to be cuddled, scratched,talked,
you must find. When it bites back it is hurt? If not he is showing affection, if it
is too strong, say no,no or do something (lightly) to show you are not agreeing.
But licking and meowing are signs of affection.
Maybe he misses you when you leave him alone. 
Try to show him you missed him also.
Love is something in cats as in humans one shows correspondence..
By other side  see if he is healthy, has no pain  sometimes he is feeling bad.
There are people that takes cats with lashes to walk, 
there are special ones for that.
But  it is somehow difficult, to begin doing at his age, maybe
it will be not an easy thing, either if he is an inside or outside only cat.
Good luck with your friend. I am sure that mostly probably iwhen you show him
your  love  he answers positively.

Mabel
(Dr. Mabel Rodrigues)
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